About Us

The IDF Widows and Orphans Organization is a nonprofit organization founded in 1991, and operates on the basis of the Fallen Soldiers’ Families Law, with the aim of supporting and empowering the widows and orphans of fallen servicemen of the IDF and other security personnel, and to create a supportive community for bereaved families.

The IDF Widows and Orphans Organization is a nonprofit organization, founded in 1991, and is the only official body in Israel dedicated to supporting the widows, widowers, and children of fallen soldiers and security personnel—including members of the Israel Police, the Israel Security Agency, Mossad, Israel Prison Service, and civilian emergency response units.

The organization operates under the authority of the Families of Fallen Soldiers Law (1950), with the goal of strengthening and empowering bereaved families—those who have paid the ultimate price, whose lives were forever shattered in a single devastating moment.

Since its founding, the organization has stood by thousands of bereaved families whose loved ones were killed while serving and defending the State of Israel and its people. From the War of Independence until today, we support widows, widowers, and orphans as they move forward and rebuild their lives with strength and dignity.

Our ongoing activities include a variety of services and support offerings, such as financial grants and scholarships, individual assistance, group retreats, enrichment opportunities, workshops, emotional support programs, children’s camps, and community events — all designed to respond thoughtfully to the diverse needs of our families.

Alongside our community work, we also operate in the public and parliamentary spheres. We represent widows, widowers, and orphans of fallen soldiers and security personnel, whose spouses or fathers were killed while defending the State of Israel and its people. We submit proposals to improve existing regulations and advocate for legislation to enhance their rights and welfare.

The organization is democratically run. Its leadership is elected by members every four years. These elections appoint a general assembly of around 50 members, who in turn elect the Executive Committee, chaired by the Chairperson of the organization. The committee is responsible for guiding the organization’s work, assessing the needs of bereaved families, and submitting legislative and policy recommendations to Israel’s Ministry of Defense, government, and Knesset.

The IDF Widows and Orphans Organization

Our Mission

We are committed to acting with compassion, professionalism, and unwavering dedication to improve the lives of IDF widows, widowers, and orphans. Our work is grounded in a deep understanding of their personal and family needs throughout their lives. We strive to strengthen them, help them rebuild and grow from their grief, and foster a strong, supportive community. We aim to amplify their voices in front of decision-makers, influence public opinion, and enhance the personal, social, and national resilience of Israeli society. We walk beside them on the difficult path that was forced upon them emotionally, socially, communally, and financially. Our message is clear and strong: They are not alone. Israeli society as a whole honors the profound sacrifice they have made — and we are here to support them, assist them, and remind them of that, every step of the way.

Community, Partnership, Strength, Diversity, Growth

International Friends Association

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Mr. Yossi Cohen, former head of the Mossad

PRESIDENT

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Anna Meissner

IDFWO Ambassador, Czech Republic

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Adv. Zehava Gross Meydan

Chairwoman

Adv. Zehava Gross Meydan – Chair of the Organization

Widow of the late Lt. Col. Yosef Meydan, Deputy Commander of an armored battalion in the IDF’s 401st Brigade, who fell during the final days of the First Lebanon War. A resident of Lehavim, she is a proud mother to one son and grandmother to four grandchildren.

Zehava has a longstanding background in public and volunteer service within the IDF Widows and Orphans Organization. Since 2019, she has served on the Executive Board, holding key positions including Chair of the Widows’ Legislation Committee, Chair of the Research Grants and Awards Committee, member of the Bylaws Committee, and Regional Coordinator for the Southern District.

In January 2025, she was elected Chair of the Organization.

She is deeply committed to advancing the rights of IDF widows and orphans and to shaping the organization as a warm, supportive, and embracing home for all its members.

מ״מ רותי גת

Ruth Gat

Board member

Widow of Lt. Col. Yisrael Gat, who fell in 1990

Quote

Believing in your ability is already half the journey; I believe.

חגית סלע

Hagit Sela

Board member

Widow of Sgt. Major Aharon Sela, who fell in 2007

Quote

Mark your goal and conquer it with all your might.

עוד זהבה גרוס מידן

Zehava Gross Meydan

Board member

Widow of Maj. Yosef Meydan (Dadon), who fell in 1984

Quote

You just need the desire and to strive, to dare, always looking forward with your head held high.

רותי הש צביקלר

Ruti Hash Zvikler

Board member

Widow of Sgt. Harel Zacharia, who fell in 1974

Quote

Courage does not always emerge with a roar; sometimes it’s just a small voice at the end of the day that says, “I’ll try again tomorrow.”

לי טורסטון עדני

Lee Thurston Adany

Board member

Widow of Sgt. David Thurston who fell in 1982

Quote

Love, smile, and give: It moves mountains.

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Yona Nefesh

Board Member

Widow of Master Sgt. Reuven Nefesh who fell in 1981

Quote

life is not a journey of searching for oneself, but of creating oneself with giving and smiling.

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Wasim Shibel

Board member

The son of staff sergeant Shibel Ibrahim who fell in 1993

Quote

The ability to give of oneself, leading change for the benefit of the orphans and the widows and the success of the organization are a great privilege.

Members of the elected delegation

Organization Team

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Shlomi Nahumson

CEO

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Noali Miron

Director of Organizational Development

David Metzler

David Metzler

Director, International Relations

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Yifat Zinger

Secretary

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Mazi Stroll

Accounting Manager

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Yehuda Katz

Project Manager

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Dana Atias

Project Manager

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Eyar Eliyahu

Otzma Project Director

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Sarit Lev

Resource Development Associate

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Inbal Levy

Project Manager

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Eden Naflay

Project Manager

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Avishay Yanay

Project Manager

Organization Committees

Rehabilitation
Ariela Yoshua - Chairman
Hagit Sela
Ahuva Jacobovitz
Zahva Gershon
Dina Rajpurkar
Aliza Cooperman
Regulations
Adv. Orly Geller - Chairman
Adv. Zehavit Gabin
Adv. Zehava Gros Midan
Finance
Adv. Hava Shanir - Chairman
Nehama Anuim
Michael Gronsky
Culture
Nechama Moskal - Chairman
Lee Thurston Edney
Abigail Gamzo
Ayala Razi
Rachel Shahar
Dror Lavi
Loans, Grants and Scholarships
Chava Arbiv Baram - Chairman
Klarit Adiv
Ronit Rot Schiff
Dalia Alkalai
Anat Tzfoni
Efrat Mandil Ildis
Hannah Beaton
Vered Kashti Avraham
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